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An over thinkers guide to life, Puggles, family and so much more

Overthinking is a nightmare. Due to a back operation I have too much time on my hands and too much time to think. This is how I deal with it and survive

Tag: happiness

You can still be a kind person

This is true. I always felt compelled to say yes to both my children, friends and boyfriends. I was too bothered about upsetting them and letting them down. I think that is part of the reason me and my daughter fell out because I started to say no. I couldn’t afford to say yes anymore.

It doesn’t make me a bad person. By saying no it has made me much happier and stopped me worrying as much and overthinking as much.

It’s time to just be happy

Living to please others

In the past this is how I lived my life. In past relationships I felt I had to please them and it got me down. I also used to be like that with my children. Especially my daughter. During my last relationship I felt that I was the only one who tried in the family. It was hard to please everyone and it really got me down. It was an impossible situation.

It’s amazing how now I don’t have to try and be like that anymore. My partner is amazing and we just get on. There is no effort. Also my son is a caring person. He has no agenda and we all life in harmony. After so much shit for so many years life is brilliant and if I can do it so can you.

Remember it’s impossible to please everyone all the time you tire yourself out and are miserable.

I am going to be happy

Be with someone who takes care of you

My boyfriend does this. It was very hard to let go at first as I didn’t need anyone else. Was ok on my own. He looks after me. It’s not a financial thing, but will do anything for me. There is no hassle or blame. He does it cause he wants to do it and cause he loves me.

I now enjoy having someone to love and care about me. It feels amazing after being with a narcissist. It’s very hard to let someone back in. It’s hard to let go and let my barriers down that I have built over the years. I used to feel guilty when my boyfriend did anything for me. Scared that it meant that I was a lazy person. He does it cause he loves me and wants to do it which is the best feeling in the world. Hang in there it is possible to be happy and find love after being in an abusive relationship with a narcissist.


Happinesses is the most important thing for me

Happiness starts with you !!!

Fight for your happiness

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