This is correct. I have been in pain with my back for years. It made me feel a weak person and made me overthink situations as I was worried that my boyfriend will decide he wants to be with someone who is fitter and able to do more things.

I thought I would be pain free after my operation. I am disapointed as I am still in pain in my right side but my left side is pain free. I hope it’s just part of the healing process. I am seeing the specialise next week so fingers crossed.

This could also mean that the pain suffered at the hands of another can make you mistrust and over think. I think ilmy problem is that I am an overthinker -I overthink every situation too. Sometimes it gets out of hand and it makes me think irrationally. I have to rein myself it sometimes and give myself a real talking to.